Saturday, February 11, 2012

The Small Stuff

We've heard it all before, but I just wanted to say it again...

Here are a few sound bites on overcoming the nagging impossibilities in your life and finding a way to ignore the pet peeves that get under your skin, and just keep on keeping on:

  • No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
  • Choose your battles. Don't sweat the small stuff.
  • When you know that you're capable of dealing with whatever comes, you have the only security the world has to offer.
  • Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do.
  • Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.
  • Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof. Let tomorrow take care of itself.
  • Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
  • Don't cast your pearls before swine. Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
  • The Enemy only starts shooting once you go over the top.
  • Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember, the only taste of success some people have is when they take a bite out of you.
  • We will either find a way, or make one.
  • The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.
  • It is not stress that kills us, it is our reaction to it. 
  • Real difficulties can be overcome; it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
  • If you are not criticized, you may not be doing much.
  • Truly great folks never stoop
    To answer petty things;
    The unkind word, the bitter cut
    That rankles deep and stings.
    They are too big to notice them,
    They simply pass them by,
    And even with a smile sometimes
    Or twinkle in the eye.
    For they have found that after all
    ‘Twas better in the end
    To meet it with a smile, and then,
    Just let it pass, my friend.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

The Hidden Hurts

I think sometimes people do not realize the hurt they cause others. They go on their merry way stepping on people again and again, all the while acting as if they have done nothing at all. - But this could partly be because those who are hurt don't communicate what is going on.

When I'm hurt badly, the last thing on my mind is lashing out at the one who caused it. I retreat instead into my own thoughts and try to reason the feeling out first. I hide behind my platonic, well-rehearsed, everyday face, until I've had the time I need to understand why I feel awful inside. Only when I'm sure I know what is going on, do I step out to "right the wrong". By then, I guess, it's too late.

A very wise friend of mine has given me some sound advice and insight into the mental workings of those who I feel have wronged me. I'd like to share it with you. 

She says: "Sometimes we as humans can be quite selfish. Sometimes we can only see what is right in front of us, and this causes us to put our immediate interests before others, even before what is right."

My friend's advice has made me check my own actions to see if I have been guilty of hurting others unknowingly, because of their feigned indifference. But the hidden hurts are just as bad as the ones on display, if not worse. They will eat you from the inside out, and bear the fruits of resentment, distrust and fear. I am hurting, but now I understand how I inflict hurt as well. This pain I feel right now urges me to pray that I will be smarter the next time I cross another's heart...

Friday, February 25, 2011

Sunday, January 2, 2011

The New Year

Looking back on this last year
On the threshold of another to begin
I’m mulling over what brought me joy
As a new life starts and the old one ends

I think of those who really count
Family, loved ones, friends
Recalling all those times we shared
And how my life’s been deepened

We’ve laughed and cried; we’ve whined and sighed
I don’t regret a thing
We’ve dreamt some dreams, and let some go
To some we’ve given wings

Last year was brutal, taxing, tough
We made it through somehow
I learned a lot, of strength and love
But I’m glad it’s over now

Another year, another chance
To start our lives anew
To build our purpose from bottom up
To have the faith to see it through

We’ll take one step, and then some more
Towards what happiness means
And if I fall, you’ll raise me up
To more than I could ever be

We’ll shine in what we do just best
Great potential to explore
While we inspire, and climb the higher
To reach that we only whispered of before

And at the end of this new year
I pray that, though we’re older
You’ll still be standing next to me
I’ll still be leaning on your shoulder




















Happy New Year!

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Count on Me

I love this song! Thanks, Lovee...


Saturday, October 23, 2010

At Dawning

by Nelle Richmond Eberhart















When the dawn flames in the sky, I love you;
When the birdlings wake and cry, I love you;
When the swaying blades of corn
Whisper soft at breaking morn,
Love anew to me is born, I love you,
I love you.

Dawn and dew proclaim my dream, I love you;
Chant the birds one thrilling theme, I love you;
All the sounds of morning meet,
Break in yearning at your feet.
Come and answer, come, my sweet,
I love you, I love you.

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Lucy's discovery

I found this analogy enlightening, and I thought I should share it with you:


“Aslan,” said Lucy, “you're bigger.”
“That is because you are older, little one,” answered he.
“Not because you are?”
“I am not. But every year you grow, you will find me bigger.”

(Excerpt from 'Prince Caspian' – Chapter 10)

"Truth always endures. Truth conveyed through a sanctified imagination becomes brighter and clearer, leading those who follow 'further up and further in' to God’s glorious presence." 
-- Peter Kreeft, speaking of C.S. Lewis' portrayal of knowing Christ

"People are crying out for God to reveal Himself. The problem with the world, as in Lewis's book, is that people want God revealed on their terms and in accordance with their pre-expectant definitions.
"But, God does not live according to our expectations. It is only when we realize that we must view God on His terms and in accordance with His wishes, that we begin to see the smallest part of who He is. Over time we discover more and more of what we have missed in the time we wasted trying to define God by what we want instead of who He is.
"For it is not a matter of discovering God, but recognizing that He is discovering us and helping us to see ourselves as He intended us to be.

--Michael McLarney, Christian writer and author



So, in summary, the more you find out about Christ, the more you will find that you don't know! God only gets bigger and bigger the better you get to know Him. Awesome, eh?

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Beautiful Girls

Thank you, Babe. You da best. ;)

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

An Ode to a Sister


19-04-10


A lways there

L oving and kind

L oads of fun!

I nspired and Intuitive

S ensitive and concerned (and Sexy! Heh...)

O utgoing and friendly

N aughty and Nice!



It's your birthday! Go out and party! ;)

Saturday, February 20, 2010

You asked me why

14-02-2010

 












Just because I want to love you
Just because you make me smile
Just because I know I need you
Just because you're worth the while

Just because I feel so blessed
Just because you changed my life
Just because you make the difference
Just because you asked me why

Just because you feel like velvet
Just because your hand fits mine
Just because I know I love you
Just because it's Valentine's

Saturday, February 6, 2010

The Beauty of Change



"Right now, the beauty of all of this change is that it is forcing each disciple and each lover of Christ back to the basics of their faith, the basics of their love, the basics of their life. It’s forcing each one to realign their focus and think about what it’s all about and what they’re on Earth for. It’s causing a stirring within the ranks—a positive stirring, a stirring of hearts drawn closer to their Lord and Lover."

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Let go



"They say the reason why breaking an addiction is so difficult is because no matter how bad something hurts us, letting it go hurts even more."
-- Meredith Grey

Saturday, January 9, 2010

What If?

Nichole Nordeman

Excellent song for rethinking your dedication and beliefs:




What if you’re right?
And He was just another nice guy
What if you’re right?
What if it’s true?
They say the cross will only make a fool of you
And what if it’s true?

What if He takes his place in history
With all the prophets and the kings
Who taught us love and came in peace
But then the story ends
What then?

(Chorus)
But what if you’re wrong?
What if there’s more?
What if there’s hope you never dreamed of hoping for?
What if you jump?
And just close your eyes?
What if the arms that catch you, catch you by surprise?
What if He’s more than enough?
What if it’s love?

What if you dig, What if you dig
Way down deeper than your simple-minded friends
What if you dig?
What if you find
A thousand more unanswered questions down inside
That’s all you find

What if you pick apart the logic
And begin to poke the holes
What if the crown of thorns is no more
Than folklore that must be told and retold

(Repeat Chorus)

You’ve been running as fast as you can
You’ve been looking for a place you can land for so long
But what if you’re wrong?

What if you jump?
And just close your eyes?
What if the arms that catch you, catch you by surprise?
What if He’s more than enough?
What if it’s love?

Monday, January 4, 2010

Dream Big




"If you plan on being anything less than you are capable of being, you will probably be unhappy all the days of your life."
--Abraham Maslow

Sunday, January 3, 2010

It was You

12 Stones

(This is for You. I've only become what I am this last year because of You. Thank You for always being there for me and never giving up on me. I wouldn't be here without You, Lord...)



It was you
That showed me who I am
And taught me how to stand
For what I know is real

I was sick of all the pain
Tired of all the shame that I felt
But you showed me a way
To never have a doubt
And always to believe in myself
Now I see

It was you
That showed me who I am
And taught me how to stand
For what I know is real

Now I'm breathin for the first time
And I'm leavin, all this behind
I've become, what I am because of you
It was you

I'm so sorry 'bout the ways
but I can't take away my past
But you love me anyway
And now I wanna do
Everything for you that I can
Even though it won't erase
The foolish things that I've done
Things that blinded me
But now I see

It was you
That showed me who I am
And taught me how to stand
For what I know is real
Now I'm breathin for the first time
And I'm leavin, all this behind
And I'll stand
For what I know is real

So how can I make this up to you
I'll fight and I'll push and I'll strive
Now that I'm living my life for you
I'll fight and I'll push and I'll strive
Can't you see

It was you
That showed me who I am
And taught me how to stand
For what I know is real

Now I'm breathin for the first time
And I'm leavin, all this behind
I've become, what I am because of you

I can see the writing on the wall
As time begins to crawl away from me
And I've become what I am
Because of you
It was you

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Calling You

Blue October 

(I love you, Babes...more than you know. Thanks for always calling me...) 





There's something that I can't quite explain
I'm so in love with you
You'll never take that away

And if I said a hundred times before
Expect a thousand more
You'll never take that away

Well, expect me to be
Calling you to see
If you're okay when I'm not around
Asking if you love me
I love the way you make it sound
Calling you to see
Do I try too hard to make you smile
To make a smile?

Well I will keep calling you to see
If you're sleeping, are you dreaming? And
If you're dreaming, are you dreaming of me?
I can't believe
You actually picked...me

I thought that the world had lost its way
(It's so hard sometimes)
Then I fell in love with you
(Then came you)
And you took that away
(It's not so difficult, the world is not so difficult)
You take away the old
Show me the new
And I feel like I can fly
When I stand next to you
So what if I'm on this phone
A hundred miles from home
I take the words you gave
And send them back to you

I only want to see
If you're okay when I'm not around
Asking if you love me
I love the way you make it sound
Calling you to see
Do I try too hard to make you smile
To make a smile?

I will keep calling you to see
If you're sleeping, are you dreaming? And
If you're dreaming, are you dreaming of me?
I can't believe
You actually picked...me

Monday, December 28, 2009

A Christmas Wish

December 25, 2009


If I could only have one wish
For this merry Christmas night
I couldn't pick a single one
That alone would justify

I'd wish for peace to come to all
And pain to melt away
But I'd also wish for love and truth
On this Christmas day

I'd wish for lively fun and joy
Ten thousand bells to ring
I'd wish for laughter to be heard
And the herald angels sing

But I'd also wish for quieter times
To reflect upon this day
For time to think on why we're here
For men to learn to pray

I'd wish that all could find the hope
That trusting in Him brings
Instead of worry, hate and fear
Instead of trusting things

And I'd wish that those we love could know
How much it means to me
To be together on this day
To be a family

And in a few more years to come
I'd wish that we could smile
When thinking back upon this day
And linger there awhile

If I could only have one wish
For this merry Christmas night
I couldn't pick a single one
That alone would justify...


Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

The Boy Who Changed My Christmases Forever


This story really touched me, so I'd like to share it with you:



By John London
      I hurried into the local department store to grab some last-minute Christmas gifts. I looked at all the people and grumbled to myself. I would be in here forever and I just had so much to do. Christmas was beginning to become such a drag. I kinda wished that I could just sleep through Christmas. But I hurried the best I could through all the people to the toy department. Once again I mumbled to myself at the prices of all these toys and wondered if the grandkids would even play with them.
      I found myself in the doll aisle. Out of the corner of my eye I saw a little boy about five holding a lovely doll. He kept touching her hair and he held her so gently. I could not seem to help myself. I just kept looking over at the little boy and wondered who the doll was for. I watched him turn to a woman he called his aunt and say, “Are you sure I don’t have enough money?” She replied a bit impatiently, “You know that you don’t have enough money for it.” The aunt told the little boy not to go anywhere; that she had to go get some other things and would be back in a few minutes. And then she left the aisle. The boy continued to hold the doll.
      After a bit I asked the boy who the doll was for. He said, “It is the doll my sister wanted so badly for Christmas. She just knew that Santa would bring it.” I told him that maybe Santa was going to bring it. He said “No, Santa can’t go where my sister is … I have to give the doll to my momma to take to her.” I asked him where his sister was.
      He looked at me with the saddest eyes and said, “She has gone to be with Jesus. My daddy says that Momma is going to have to go be with her.” My heart nearly stopped beating. Then the boy looked at me again and said, “I told Daddy to tell Momma not to go yet. I told him to tell her to wait till I got back from the store.” Then he asked me if I wanted to see his picture. I told him I would love to. He pulled out some pictures he’d had taken at the front of the store. He said, “I want my momma to take this with her so she won’t ever forget me. I love my momma so very much and I wish she didn’t have to leave me, but Daddy says she will need to be with my sister.”
      I saw that the little boy had lowered his head and had grown so very quiet. While he was not looking, I reached into my purse and pulled out a handful of bills. I asked the little boy, “Shall we count that money one more time?” He grew excited and said, “Yes, I just know it has to be enough.” So I slipped my money in with his and we began to count it.
      Of course, it was plenty for the doll. He softly said, “Thank You Jesus for giving me enough money.” Then the boy said, “I just asked Jesus to give me enough money to buy this doll so Momma can take it with her to give to my sister, and He heard my prayer. I wanted to ask Him for enough to buy my momma a white rose, but I didn’t ask Him; but He’s given me enough to buy the doll and a rose for Momma! She loves white roses so very, very much.”
      In a few minutes the aunt came back and I wheeled my cart away. I could not keep from thinking about the little boy as I finished my shopping in a totally different spirit than when I had started. I kept remembering a story I had seen in the newspaper several days earlier about a drunk driver hitting a car and killing a little girl and the mother was in serious condition. The family was deciding on whether to remove the life support. Surely this little boy did not belong with that story.
      Two days later I read in the paper that the family had disconnected the life support and the young woman had died. I couldn’t forget the little boy and just kept wondering if the two were somehow connected. Later that day, I couldn’t help myself, I went out and bought some white roses and took them to the funeral home where the young woman was. There she was, holding a lovely white rose, the beautiful doll, and the picture of the little boy in the store.
      I left there in tears, my life changed forever. The love that little boy had for his little sister and his mother was overwhelming. “We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Blurry

Puddle of Mudd

(One of my favorite songs...)



And everyone's so fake
And everybody's empty
And everything is so messed up
Preoccupied without you
I cannot live at all
My whole world surrounds you
I stumble then I crawl

You could be my someone
You could be my scene
You know that I'll protect you
From all of the obscene
I wonder what your doing?
Imagine where you are?
There's oceans in between us
But that's not very far

Chorus:
Can you take it all away
Can you take it all away
Well you shoved it in my face
This pain you gave to me
Can you take it all away
Can you take it all away
Well you shoved it my face

Everyone is changing
There's no one left that's real
To make up your own ending
And let me know just how you feel
'Cause I am lost without you
I cannot live at all
My whole world surrounds you
I stumble then I crawl

And you could be my someone
You could be my scene
You know that I will save you
From all of the unclean
I wonder what your doing?
I wonder where you are?
There's oceans in between us
But that's not very far

Repeat Chorus:
This pain you gave to me

Nobody told me what you thought
Nobody told me what to say
Everyone showed you where to turn
Told you when to runaway
Nobody told you where to hide
Nobody told you what to say
Everyone showed you where to turn
Showed you when to runaway

Repeat Chorus:
This pain you gave to me
No this pain you gave to me
This pain you gave to me

You take it all
You take it all away
Explain again to me
You take it all away
Explain again to me
Take it all away
Explain again
Explain again
Explain again

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

You

01-12-09
I sat down today to write something of you
It had to be done, I said to myself
If someone like you could fill up my thoughts
And push all else out, without any help

Then certainly much could be said of this someone
Whose voice makes my heart jump, and blushes my face
Whose smile stops my breathing, and freezes my throat
Whose eyes tell a story I cannot erase





You make me feel as if no one else matters
It's hard to believe why you'd even care
About someone like me, a nothing, a splatter
I think that you love me, do I even dare?

To dream that one day I’ll call you my own
My own special someone, the half of my heart
And every day wake up beside you alone
To stay here for always, and never depart

And if this is all just a very good dream
And if it’s a lie, I don’t know what I’d do
Maybe every girl says this, and so it’s cliché
You’re one in a billion, there’s no one like you

I sat down today to write something of you
It had to be done, I said to myself
Although I am selfish, you know that it's true
I think that the whole world should know about you